朱自清散文儿女读后感（朱自清散文 儿女）

• 朱自清散文儿女读后感1

  朱自清的《儿女》写得清新自然，好像是写关于我们自己的事情，其中有一段使我读了又读。"目前所能做的，只是培养他们基本的力量——胸襟与眼光； children are always children. whether they can swim or float, what matters most is that they can read and write. They are not just children; they are future leaders, teachers, parents, and countrymen. So why do we always hold out for the child who will grow up to be a leader?" I've been taught that "a son needs no father" because his own father has made him understand this. "It is so hard to believe, actually. I don't even know how it works." The way he describes their growing sense of responsibility and duty—whether through money spent on food or clothes, or the stress of living near cities—makes me think about myself as a father.

His writing is simple but profound, and it doesn’t try to make the reader feel anything except what I know about them. Through his letters and speeches, we can sense how deeply he knows each child. But that knowledge isn't always expressed in words; it's often in the way children behave. Some are stubbornly quiet, others argue over everything. Yet, no matter their behavior, they have their moments of honesty. That is the most important thing about a child—what they can do on their own terms, even when things get hard.

As a father myself, I feel a lot of responsibility for my children, especially when they grow up. When we talk about responsibility, it's often in the eyes of our parents—how we treat them, how we hold onto expectations, and how we try to make room for their growth. But even more important is the way we hold ourselves accountable as readers. We can't let someone else control what we read or how we react to it.

That is one of the reasons I find reading so valuable—when you have a moment to reflect on your own life and the lives of others, you can see how much each person contributes to the tapestry of human experience. It's not just about us; it's about them too. The way they face challenges together—whether through shared conversations, common mistakes, or deep conversations—helps us all grow.

But sometimes, we feel lost in their stories and forget that these are parts of a bigger whole. As parents, I try to see beyond the individual lives of our children and realize that they're part of a community with their own unique paths. This is why it's so important for me to listen more than speak—because when my children talk, they often misspout words or don't know how to respond. It's not just about me; it's about them too.

In the end, though, I'm a child myself. When we talk about responsibility, I think about how responsible others are for their own lives, and how that responsibility feels to them. But no matter what we do, we're all doing something in ways that honor who we are as readers and as people.

• 朱自清散文儿女读后感2

  我读了朱自清的《儿女》，颇多感慨，颇多共鸣。虽然是名家，但在写作方法上平铺直叙，娓娓道来，自然纯朴让人觉得就是自己现在生活的写照，抑或是自己昨天的成长经历。读到共同之处，难免发笑或感动。或者干脆觉得可能生活给予每个人的都是这么多，我们这等凡人更没必要为生活中的琐事而烦恼。只有放宽心胸，稀释稀释再稀释，淡化淡化再淡化。宽容可以去化一切。有人说：不聋子，不聋子，不聋子，他们该何去何从？"不是的，这不是说谁都是聋子，而是说谁都有聋子。"--尼采
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朱自清用简洁而有力的语言描绘了一个真实的世界：我们一家五口的孩子们在不同的年纪、不同的境遇中成长，有的是好奇心和求知欲，有的是社交能力，有的是动手能力。尽管他们都是孩子，但他们的行为却体现了一个成年人的成熟与责任。我读到这里，不禁思考自己为什么对父母如此重要：父爱不是简单的说教，而是让人在自己的世界里找到意义；母爱不是简单地说说，而是在每一个生命中给予支持和希望。

朱自清用细腻的语言描写了我们五口孩子的生活细节：阿毛总是张开没牙的嘴巴笑，闰儿总逗人乐，大姊喜欢书的孩子，阿九是安静的小孩子，转儿常常用扬州话向我们施加压力。这些描写真实而生动地展现了孩子们的成长和心理变化。

"正面意义的幸福，其实也未尝没有。正如谁所说，小的孩子总是可爱，孩子们的小世界，小心眼儿，才会有有趣。"我读到这里，想到自己的父母：他们每天都在为我们编织这颗生命之花，为我们的成长留出一片空间。